Baby Sleep the Night TM
By Karen Bramall
Creator of The Five Stroke Rule TM
Rhea Li
Rhea Li

Hi, my name is Rhea Li

First and foremost, thank you for taking the time to read a little bit more about me and how I can help you.

As a proud mother of five lovely children, the youngest being two year old twins, I have experienced sleep problems first hand and know the pain and exhaustion of being sleep deprived. Like many parents, I simply thought my babies would outgrow it, but when our third child came along and started not sleeping, it all got too much, we needed some help to get us back on track again. Meeting Karen, the founder of BSTN, changed everything. Our sleep refusing daughter went from numerous wakes a night and not settling to sleeping 12 hours on night three, it was magical! I am so pleased we found Karen, the techniques she taught us for Amelia enabled us to instil good sleeping habits for the twins from the outset and they have been great sleepers ever since.

Passing through these stages with my own children has not only given me invaluable hands on experience, but also the ability to empathise and relate to the daily dilemmas of modern parenting. I am passionate about helping parents and their precious little ones get the rest and downtime they so desperately need to develop, learn and grow.

My ethos as a Baby and Child Sleep Consultant is to help and support you in giving your little ones the skills to settle themselves to sleep independently, whether at bedtime, the middle of the night or nap time.

I have worked with children as an Early Years and Forest school teacher for 15 years, it has always been my passion and always will be.  When I was hand picked to train with Karen Bramall, renowned sleep expert and founder of Baby Sleep The Night™, I jumped at the chance. I love working together with families.  I am passionate about helping them to implement a customised, step-by-step plan for their children, restoring the health and well-being of the whole family. With my guidance and support you too will have the tools and confidence to succeed on your own.

I’m based in Hampshire for 1 to 1 consultations, face to face within a 30 minute drive. I can also work remotely via FaceTime, Skype or phone consultations.

Please scroll down to view the packages I offer as well as some reviews from my happy clients.
Phone: 07920422389
Email: rhea.li@babysleepthenight.com


We couldn't be happier with the amazing results Rhea helped us achieve, I kick myself that I didn't sort this sooner!

A happier daughter/parents/household as a result. Great support from Rhea along the way and a tailored, gentle personalised plan to suit us. Worked an absolute treat and in a very short time span, wouldn't hesitate to recommend."

Charlotte and Hattie, 2.5 yrs

We contacted Rhea having had a very difficult 6 month period of sleeping with our second child, Lucas. Having started life as brilliant sleeper, at 18 months old he deteriorated as we slipped into bad habits and the Christmas break was ruined by him waking multiple times each night, not falling asleep unless he was laying on one of us, keeping us awake by flapping around in our bed etc. etc.

After a simple and friendly briefing from Rhea, we embarked on her sleep programme, and after only 3 nights Lucas was happily going into his cot wide awake and sleeping there all night, waking only occasionally.

By night 7 or 8 he had started sleeping through from 730pm to 630am. It’s a genuine transformation, giving Lucas more energy each day, and for us it means we get our evenings back and a full nights sleep.

Thank you Rhea!"

Rebecca and lucas, 20 months

I wish I had started this months ago when Rhea was first recommended to me.
I kept putting it off because my first baby was and still is a brilliant sleeper and I assumed eventually my 14 month old twins would catch on.

Rhea is kind, knowledgeable, extremely supportive and put all my concerns regarding sleep training to bed (excuse the pun!).

It wasn't nearly as hard as I thought it would be. Being able to get a full nights sleep after all this time has transformed family life. Importantly my babies are happy, rested and sleeping like babies."

Tara, Luke and Ezra 14 months

"Evelyn has been an adequate sleeper since a baby but had rarely slept through the night. We used online research and informal advice to establish good sleep habits and to start weaning her from milk, it was working reasonably well until Evelyn was unwell for a week aged one year.

Following this, she regressed to the sleeping habits of a new born.....2-3 hourly wakes, only settling with a bottle or in our arms, she was unhappy during the day due to her broken sleep.

At 6 months pregnant with our second child, this became untenable for my husband and I and we became so sleep deprived we were struggling to function and at a loss as to how to fix things... 

...Until we met Rhea, AKA our saviour!

Rhea devised an individualised plan which suited our parenting style and Evelyn was sleeping through the night, weaned from milk and bottles and a much happier little girl in just 24 hours!!!

Rhea was kind, patient, accessible, confident and very knowledgeable. This gave us the confidence that we were doing the best for our little one which allowed us to stick to the plan and succeed. Rhea has changed our lives and given us our happy, content little girl back.

Our only regret is that we didn't do this sooner!""

Laura and Evie 13 months

Isabella was always a great sleeper, thumb sucker and loves her muzzy! She self settled like a dream.
Although she had never been one to sleep through the night, would always wake for a feed.

At 12 months things took a turn and it got harder to get her to bed and keep her there! Over the period of a year we went from staying in her room for over an hour and sometimes 2, to car drives to get her to sleep to eventually just putting her to bed in our bed!

It worked for a period of time, she went straight off in our bed and it was easy but we knew it couldn't last. We took the plunge of getting her a single bed when she was about 2, she took to it really well which we were pleased with but getting her to sleep was still a struggle with one of us staying in there until she fell asleep.
And she was still waking several times until we would put her in our bed!

And here wonderful Rhea steps in! She provided a fantastic consultation that made us feel really at ease and comfortable with her and the steps forward. She provided comfort to our concerns and to our amazement Isabella responded so well. It was a tough first week but we pulled through it and Rhea supported us everyday.

Within a week we were able to say goodnight and leave the room with no problems! Within 2 weeks we were doing this and downstairs getting on with our evening and she was sleeping through.

We can't recommend Rhea enough, her service is utterly life changing and has given Isabella the gift of a good night's sleep and independence! Thank you!"

Anika, Rob and Isabella, 2.5 yrs

We worked with Rhea over a couple of weeks to establish better sleep patterns for our twin boys. All I can say is AMAZING!!

We were in a position where our little ones were difficult to get to sleep at any time, and one in particular was waking every half hour in the evening and several times at night, needing to be rocked to sleep for 20 mins minimum at a time and wanting feeds in the night.

We need help and our fairy godmother arrived - just before I completely lost the plot!

Rhea listened to our situation and asked questions to find out the information she needed to create a bespoke plan for us. She then talked us through the plan and enabled us to ask questions to ensure we understood. She was then there for us over the following days, providing support via WhatsApp and follow up calls to ensure we felt comfortable with what we were doing and stayed on track. I’m not going to say it was an easy first night - but she had prepared us for that - and so we felt we were able to take things in our stride.

We couldn’t believe it when they slept through the first night and we woke in the morning a little confused about whether it was the middle of the night or not!!

Each of the steps we have followed have been straight forward and for us have gone relatively smoothly and we are so grateful for her support in this. I would not hesitate to recommend Rhea to you.

She is friendly, thoughtful, professional and with five children of her own (including twins) she is more than capable of empathising with the wits’ end feeling that sleep deprivation brings. If you have got to the end of this testimonial and aren’t convinced I would just say, give her a call - the first 15 minute consultation is free. What have you got to loose? And you are sure to gain back precious hours of sleep and your sanity if you go ahead.
For the avoidance of doubt, I’d also say that I am not a friend of Rhea’s, nor related to her in any way. We did not know each other prior to working together. I’ve just written this testimonial because I want people to be helped like we were helped. Good luck!"

Ali, Max and Owen 9 months


One-to-One Sleep Solutions Package
This is the most popular package, and consists of:-

  • A preliminary evaluation. This is a comprehensive questionnaire about your child’s sleep habits and routines that you’ll fill out prior to our meeting. (Having this information in advance helps us make the most of our time together).

  • A private, 90 minute consultation in the comfort of your own home, or via Skype/FaceTime or telephone, where we’ll discuss strategies, troubleshoot possible problems and learn how to address bedtime, naptime, nightwakings or any other specific issues you might be dealing with.

  • A detailed, fully customized sleep plan, that I will prepare for you after the conclusion of our meeting.

  • Four follow-up telephone calls during the first week following the consultation. These follow-up calls last about 15 minutes, and we’ll use this time to deal with any setbacks you might be having or answer any general questions.

  • One week of e-mail support. After your four follow-up telephone calls have been used, you still have an additional week of e-mail support where you can email me once daily, excluding Sundays I will always aim to reply to your queries within one working day.

The total cost for the One-to-One Sleep Solutions package for a baby or toddler in a cot is £245 currently £145! by Skype/Facetime/Phone/In person

Face to face consultations are available within a 30 minute driving radius of Winchester (further distances can be accommodated with additional travel expenses– please call for details)
New-born – Get it right from the Start Package
This is a comprehensive training plan helping parents of new-borns train their little ones to have fabulous sleep skills from a very young age and can be implemented from day one! Getting an early start in establishing healthy sleep habits is a huge advantage for both babies and their parents. With this package, you will learn everything you need to teach your baby to be an independent sleeper right from the beginning. It is a fantastic gift package for new parents too and consultations can take place before or after the baby has arrived. (gift certificates available and can be posted direct to the lucky couple if required) It consists of:-

  • A private 60 minute telephone or in-home consultation. We will discuss how to establish a healthy sleep plan for your new-born, discussing sleep needs, schedules for feeding, naps and bedtime, how to help teach your baby the difference between day and night, creating the right sleeping environment, strategies to encourage sleep, when to expect your baby to be sleeping longer stretches, and common sleep issues that can be easily avoided.

  • A detailed sleep plan. If you are expecting, the gentle, caring techniques in your sleep plan will teach you how to create an independent sleeper from day one, and will give you a flexible guide to quickly bring some routine, when baby arrives, to a time of your lives which can otherwise become quite overwhelming. If you baby has already arrived, your sleep plan will be fully customized for your family.

  • One follow-up phone call. If you are following a sleep plan from the beginning then you will find your baby is naturally developing wonderful independent sleep skills, you may find you have some questions so we will schedule a telephone call within 2 weeks of the baby’s birth just in case (if you are expecting) or within 2 weeks of consultation (if you already have your baby at home). These calls typically last about 15 minutes.

  • Two follow-up e-mails I will give you my personal email address so you can email me on two occasions with any questions or concerns any time within the first 3 months of your baby’s birth or our consultation. After 3 months you can purchase another week of email support at any time should you need it .

The total cost for the New-born – Get it right from the Start Package is £125 Currently £95 By Skype/Facetime/Phone

Face to face consultations are available within a 30 minute driving radius of Winchester, (further distances can be accommodated – please call for details)
The Refresher
It is not uncommon for babies and toddlers who have been taught to be great sleepers to ‘test the boundaries’ from time to time. This option is for parents who have met with me in the past, but are looking for a ‘refresher’. This is a popular option for past clients who have recently had a new baby – or who are expecting in the near future. It consists of:-

  • A private, 60 minute consultation, usually by phone or by Skype, during which we’ll use to discuss any particular challenges you are having with your child. Since we’ve already worked together, a full hour is usually more than enough time to cover all your questions and concerns.

  • Optional 2x follow-up emails that you can use to send me any additional questions that might come up as you get things back on track. I’ll aim to respond to your email within one day.

The total cost for the Refresher Package 60 minute consultation is £95, with 2x optional emails £125
The Overnight
This personal support package is for those who want me at your home (in the Winchester area) for assistance on the night you choose to implement the program. Further distances can be accommodated – please call for details This consists of:

  • A preliminary evaluation This is a comprehensive questionnaire about your child’s sleep habits and routines that you’ll complete prior to our meeting. (Having this information in advance helps us make the most of our time together.)

  • 15 minute phone consultation to discuss details of the overnight support- time,requirements etc.

  • Private In-Home/Overnight Support I will join you prior to your child’s recommended bedtime and stay overnight until 7:00 am the next morning. The consultation will take place in the comfort of your home and we will begin your journey to great sleep together.

  • A detailed, fully customized sleep plan This will be prepared for you after our consultation and after the nights stay so you have your own personalized plan to help guide you through the upcoming nights.

  • Four follow-up telephone calls Four phone calls, typically lasting 15 minutes, can be scheduled for the first week following the consultation. We’ll use this time to deal with any setbacks you might be having or answer any general questions.

  • One week of e-mail support After your four follow-up telephone calls have been used, you still have an additional week of e-mail support if any questions arise. You will have my private e-mail address and I’ll respond to your emails within 1 business day

The total cost of the Overnight Package is £650
Book an appointment for a free 15 minutes consultation below, or if you would like to speak to me today please do call or email me now on 07920422389 or email rhea.li@babysleepthenight.com
Please note - Appointments are UK time zone so please convert to your local time if you are overseas. Be sure to check whether we are in GMT or BST at time of booking.
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